Children Learn What They Live


September
Respect

 


October
Responsibility

 


November
Compassion

 

 

December
Faith

 


January
Commitment

 

 

February
Love

 

 

March
Wisdom

 

 

April
Health

 

 

May
Humor

 

 

 

To know one's own worth and to honor the worth of others is the true way to earn respect. Respect is an acknowledgment of the inherent worth and innate rights of the individual and the collective. These must be recognized as the central focus to draw from people a commitment to a higher purpose in life.

 

 - Living Values: A Guidebook

 

 

What is respect? What does it mean to you? When do you feel most full of self respect? How do you feel when others give you respect -- and disrespect? How do you feel when you give respect from your heart to others? What would respectful relationships give to the world? Do parents teach respect most powerfully when they give respect -- to everyone? What would the world be like if every person had respect for the inherent worth and innate rights of every individual? Perhaps reflect on your own positive qualities a couple of times in the next few days. Experiment with giving respect to people that you may not usually even "see" during your busy day. 
        

" Why Respect?'

"Why Manners?"

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Respect for life, for property, for parents, for elders, for nature, and for the beliefs and rights of others. Courtesy, politeness, and manners. Self-respect and the avoidance of self-criticism. General Guidelines Extend respect and then expect respect. "Magic Words" please, thank you, excuse me.

 

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We could learn a lot from crayons:

some are sharp, some are pretty,

some are dull, some have weird names,

and all are different colors....but

they all exist very nicely in the same box.

Kindness and Acceptance is the awareness that being kind and considerate is more admirable than being tough or strong. The tendency to understand rather than confront. Gentleness, particularly toward those who are younger or weaker. The ability to make and keep friends. Helpfulness. Cheerfulness. General Guidelines Teach by example. "Magic Words" please, thank you, excuse me and you're welcome make people smile, make them feel better, make the world work better!

Random Acts of Kindness:

  • Pass along the last great book you read.
  • If a waiter does an especially good job, let them know.
  • Send your favorite childhood book to a young person.
  • Open the door for a mother with a stroller.
  • get back in touch with someone who once meant something to you, if only to tell her she made an impact.
  • Make time to volunteer if you believe strongly in a cause.
  • Spend an afternoon with an elderly family member doing something that makes them happiest.
  • Pick up litter in your local park-even if it's not yours.
  • Let someone pass you in the checkout line if they seem rushed.
  • Resist the temptation to lash out when your 're in a bad mood.
  • Make a pen pal. Kids love getting mail.
  • If your out of gift ideas for a friend's birthday, make them a dessert.
  • If someone you love needs a favor, help if you can.
  • Bring your parents flowers to thank them for something.
  • Be generous with sincere compliments
  • Say thank you
  • Be polite to your neighbor.
  • When someone is speaking, offer her one hundred percent of your attention.
  • Adopt a new student-be nice to them at lunch, and make yourself available for any little question they have.

 

I remember an article in a newspaper on little Prince William, the then five-year-old son of Prince Charles and Lady Diana of England, that pointed out that although the little fellow was independent and a bit rambunctious, he was also extremely polite and respectful. He always opened doors for ladies, addressed men as "sir," and said "please" and "thank you." His parents, the article said, had instructed the royal nanny to put high priority on teaching him to be a "respectful young gentlemen." "now that's what we need," I thought to myself-"a little more respect.' I tore out the article and showed it to the kids that evening at dinner, explaining very firmly that from now on we are going to have better manners and more respect. I asked them what they thought respect meant and got the answers I wanted. "Being polite," being courteous," "helping other people." Then I got an answer far better than I thought I wanted-far better than the answer I had in my own mind. It came from an adolescent daughter, who said, "I think it's nice that Prince William calls people 'sir' and I think manners are important, but respect isn't just using the right words and being well trained. Respect means really caring about how people feel."-----Linda
Rudeness selfishness enemies anger

Respect kindness friendliness understanding

 

"Teaching Your Children Values": by Linda and Richard Eyre

Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for kindness.

---Seneca

Kindness gives birth to kindness.

---Sophocles

 

Name: The Doll Lady (H. Elizabeth Collins)
Name: Koala Kan Learns About Respect (Vanessa J. James)
Name: Crabby Critters (Desert Critter Friends No 11) (Mona Gansberg Hodgson)
Name: Building Respect Responsibility and Spiritual Values in Your Child (Mike Phillips)
Name: Respecting Others (First Step Nonfiction) (Robin Nelson)
Name: Respect (Values to Live by) (Beverly Fiday)
Name: Character Counts!: Respect (Character Counts) (Brighter Vision)
Name: Self-Esteem (The Values Library) (Alicia Thomas
Name: The Value of Respect: The Story of Abraham Lincoln (Value tales) (Ann Donegan Johnson)
Name: The Cat at the Door: And Other Stories to Live by (Anne D. Mather)
Name: Treat Me Right: Kids Talk About Respect (Nancy Loewen)

 

SONG OF THE MONTH

 

Once again this year we will be writing a song of the month to go along with our value of the month. We will be starting with the fifth grade and working our way down to the first grade.

SEPTEMBER - RESPECT

The song of the month for September was written by the fifth graders in Room 4. It is sung to the melody of TAKE ME OUT TO THE BALL GAME.

We all want respect.

That's what we all should have

For people, places, and everything.

You respect me and I'll respect you.

Respect the others around you

Because it's the thing we all need.

It's spelled R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Respect everyone.

 

 
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